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For boarding school students, and many teachers, the campus is home. Explore dormitory living, get expert advice on learning and living away from home and learn more about what can be done to help your child transition to and succeed in boarding school. Find resources for parents, teachers and students. We’ll cover sustainability, boarding school jargon, and corporal punishment. Read first-hand accounts from parents of boarding school students, find graduation gift ideas, and learn why small classes are effective.

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What Is Being Taught?

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What Is Being Taught?
Learn how to evaluate boarding school academics, teaching methods, curriculum options, and student outcomes when choosing a boarding school in 2026.

One of the most important considerations in choosing a boarding school for your son or daughter is what goes on in the classroom and in the larger school community. In other words, what are they teaching, and how are they teaching it?

You must never assume that, just because a school enjoys a solid reputation, has been there forever, and looks wonderful on the surface, it will provide the kind of teaching you want and expect for your child. Doing your due diligence with respect to the curriculum and how it is taught has to be one of the most important parts of your school evaluation process.

Here's how to proceed:

  • Observe
  • Question
  • Research

Observe

When you visit the school for your admissions interview, try to do so while the school is in session. Summer visits are often more convenient for all of us, but you won't be able to observe any classes. Summer sessions do not usually offer a typical classroom experience. So you cannot judge the teaching or what is being taught by what you see during the summer. The teaching staff is frequently not the same as the faculty who teach during the year. Because it is summer, the whole atmosphere is much more relaxed.

When you visit the school and observe a class, is the class size small? Do students interact with the teacher and each other? Are the students learning how to think analytically? Are they using texts? Laptops? Are they sitting around a table in the Harkness-style classroom? Does the

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What If Things Go Wrong?

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What If Things Go Wrong?
Explore the realities of boarding school life, including academic challenges, community support, and disciplinary procedures. This article addresses common concerns and misconceptions, highlighting the balanced approach to education and personal growth offered by boarding schools.

What If Things Go Wrong?

You are thinking about boarding school. But you've heard that the work is tough. Furthermore, they will expel you in a heartbeat if you are caught doing anything seriously wrong. Is this true? Is that the way boarding schools work? Let's look at the facts.

1. The academic work is difficult.

There's no escaping the truth about academics in private schools. Academics are the reason a private school exists in the first place. The academic standards are high. There is a lot of homework. There are a lot of subjects and a lot of ground to cover in every class. Sometimes, the lessons are hard to understand. Just remember, whenever you feel discouraged that you were admitted to the school because you thought you could do the academic work involved. The school-based its decision on your academic transcripts and admissions test scores.

MJ The Student Actuary offers some study tips for complex subjects.

The difference between taking on challenging work in a boarding school versus a public school is simply that nobody in the boarding school will let you sink. Why? Well, for one, the classes are small. For example, your teacher will know you have problems grasping a math concept. You will not be humiliated in front of your peers. If you don't believe me, read the codes of conduct for any boarding school and see just how seriously

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Dr. Hank Nuwer on Hazing

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Dr. Hank Nuwer on Hazing
Updated 2026 guidance on hazing in boarding schools, with expert insight from Dr. Hank Nuwer and current prevention resources.

Hazing used to be widespread years ago in all kinds of organizations, including boarding schools. While it occurs much less frequently, hazing is still out there. So, we asked , a nationally recognized authority on the subject of hazing, to share his expertise with us.

We parents always worry about what goes on when we are not around to supervise our children. We all know that getting into mischief is part of growing up. Inevitably, it is going to happen. But we also want to know that there are well-known limits and accepted standards of behavior, especially when we send our children off to boarding school.

Hazing is a practice that used to be rampant in schools and organizations just about everywhere. Fortunately, in these times, in which smartphones, social media, and reporting systems make it extremely difficult to keep bad news out of the public eye, hazing is far less tolerated in boarding schools. That is a positive turn of events.

As Dr. Nuwer clearly notes, boarding schools are indeed virtually free of hazing. That is because boarding schools insist on a high standard of supervision and community life designed to protect their students from any kind of harm. Most schools have a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to hazing. It is one more reason why boarding schools are safe schools. They take their in loco parentis responsibilities very seriously.

Is it true that hazing is no longer found in U.S. boarding
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The 91±¬ÁÏ Glossary

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Boarding schools have their own jargon just like any activity or affinity group has.

The 91±¬ÁÏ Glossary

Boarding schools have their own jargon, just like any activity or affinity group has. Here are some of the more common terms and acronyms that you are likely to encounter as you explore boarding schools.

ADD/ADHD

, was previously known as ADD or Attention Deficit Disorder.

  • In all probability, you won't notice signs of ADHD until your child starts school.
  • If he exhibits any symptoms of ADHD, the school will bring it to your attention.
  • The next step is to have him evaluated professionally.
  • The syndrome is treatable.
  • There are hundreds of private schools that have experienced, professional staff who can work effectively with children who learn differently.
  • Explore that option thoroughly.

This video shows the approach to teaching students with learning differences.

ACT

is an acronym for the program.

  • ACT and the SAT are the two most common college standardized tests of academic readiness for college-level studies.
  • Most private schools offer test preparation for the SAT.
  • If you prefer to have your child take the ACT, make sure that you advise the school as soon as you can.

Crew

Crew is the ancient sport of rowing.

  • Rowing in shells is a popular sport in many boarding schools.
  • Typically, crew is offered in the fall and spring.
  • Schools participate
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91±¬ÁÏ Pictures

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What does boarding school life look like? View photos from a variety of boarding schools and see if you can also picture yourself there.

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FOR PARENTS
This section covers issues and concerns for parents of boarding school students. Explore corporal punishment, get expert advice on preventing hazing, and read first-hand accounts from parents. Learn what to do if things go wrong, see what boarding school students do in the summer, and get words of wisdom from a reluctant parent.
FOR STUDENTS
Here you’ll gain knowledge about student life at boarding school. User our glossary of terms to learn boarding school jargon, discover the importance of a partnership between school, parent and child, and find great gift ideas for the boarding school graduate.
FOR TEACHERS
The articles in this section are related to teaching at a boarding school. Learn more about what is being taught, why small class sizes work, and the impact of sustainability on boarding schools. You’ll find a list of eBooks about boarding schools, be able to view pictures of boarding school life, and explore course offerings.